Not so far in the past we would send letters to keep up what was happening with friends and relatives in other states or even other countries. Over time the letters became emails. Now there are so many ways for people to connect with each other, it’s easy for some to be left behind with the changes.
A few years back a cousin of mine living in Maryland had a baby. Right after he was born, she set up a website to share stories of his milestones and photos. This was great for relatives, like my family who lives in another state and is lucky to visit once a year. We were able to see her child grow up through the photos, but it was difficult at times to remember to check the site, and as time went on, her updates became more spread out.
Soon she decided to join Facebook and she began providing updates there instead. This was fine for me who was already used to Facebook, but soon my parents and grandmother were relying on me to relay information and show them the photos that she posted. Eventually this wasn’t the most convenient for any of us.
With my parents being fairly internet savvy, I got them set up with an account. Originally it was intended to let them see what was going on with family, especially when I wasn’t around. This has flourished over time, with my dad reconnecting with people he used to live near and others with similar interests to his.
After hearing all of the information we’ve been getting about what’s been happening with our cousin, her now two kids and many more relatives, my grandma has started asking us to get her set up with an account too.. Since she has had some troubles over time learning what’s safe to click or open online, I know there will be some learning curve with Facebook, but I also know it will be good for her to be able to keep in touch again.
Melissa-BBY
Community Connector